Vague Reveries

You cannot change the wind, but you can adjust the sail.

Sometimes, by not making any decision, it is already making a decision ~ CSI, Sara Sidle

Have you ever come across those quotes above? Or like me, who just love the CSI TV series, thought what Sara said in one of the episode to Grissom was brilliant! Decisions, we always make decisions in our daily life anyway. The impact could be small or big, but still it is a decision nevertheless. I’ve made my decision, but when it involves someone else, sometimes the decision you make just take another turn than what you wanted in the first place.

Who says being single is easy? To those of you married couples out there, if you think choosing which toys to buy for your kids gives you headache, what make you think that the singles have less complicated life that you are? I seriously despise the people who keep saying this to me “at least you don’t have kids to think about, no husband to take care of!” Hey, you damn well know all those when you first commited yourself to the term “MARRIAGE”. Yes, we the singles may not have to think about the kids, the husbands, but puhleeeezzzz, we are all humans, we all have our own problems but you don’t have to tell the world how difficult your life is, do you think it is some sort of a competition? If that’s the case, then by all means, you win hands down!

If you are one of the lucky individual who get a nice, responsible, understanding  person as your partner, well at least you have someone to discuss your problems with. You can rely on that someone’s opinion because sometimes, those decisions will affect both of your lives anyway. But that does not mean that I HAVE to get married just for the sake of being married. I just want a companion, someone I can rely to, someone that cherishes me, appreciates me, loves spending time with me - even being happy having quiet moments with me. In short, someone who is happy and proud to have me as a partner.

I am single, so what? Buzz off! Let me live my life, as you live yours!

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